dstudent
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@Roy Baty you are not a disappointment. You are beautiful caring loving sensitive hardworking, great father, a decent human beings. I m sure you have achieved so much. Your job, being a farmer is hard work no many can do it, do not for a minute diminish your abilities skills knowledge and all that you have achieved. You are supermanI see my children picking up on the worse aspects of my personality now. Certainly the eldest is beginning to develop my stresses and panic. There is always that clamour "but what about your children?" - who I am supposed to be building this business for - but are they going to want to be farming after another 10/15 years of seeing the effects on their father? So much pressure now, and its not at all financial, but so little fun.
I do wonder if this drives farmers to generally taking poor care of themselves? I'd not want to have any of my family finding me strung up from a beam, but often think if I could just have a heart attack, or hit by a car, or something like that then no-one would really need to know would they?
It wasnt supposed to be like this. But seeing so many of my friends in a similar position.....such high potential but in the end I've just been a disappointment for the last 20 years.
Ah well. Tears mopped up and will go and slap on the happy face before I go out of the house.