Doing it for the kids
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So a self employed builder who does some work for us is short of money so asked me if we could pay him for the hours worked so far in January. we pay him on an hourly basis for works done so it should be easy to work out.
looking at his hours sheet though, he has added on 15 minutes between arriving and leaving in one day alone which doesn't sound much, but it happens quite a lot. Further, whilst working here he wanted to ask my some personal questions and get my advice so asked if he could some and see me. we had a chat for probably 15 minutes in my office, I think I helped him a bit, then he carried on working. his house sheet did not reflect this either
in theory I am 30 minutes down on that day alone, I haven't checked other days on the cameras.
I know it's give and take and there has to be some trust along the way but this isn't the first time this has happened and when we talk about it he seems surprised to hear my point of view.
According to others we pay him a fair / above average rate. He lives 2 miles away so his fuel costs are not high.
Am I being completely unreasonable in letting him constantly round his hours up!? he does a good job and others like him are hard to find so I have put up with it but others in the family just think he is taking all the time, granted they are not really in the same mind set as me, I don't share their black and white view.
some may think I crack the whip but we have helped him out in numerous ways before, his personal life is a mess, he has had loans and other stuff off us in the past to help him along which he never seems grateful for.
I am just trying to gauge if I am being too kind / about right / too hard on him?!
TYIA
looking at his hours sheet though, he has added on 15 minutes between arriving and leaving in one day alone which doesn't sound much, but it happens quite a lot. Further, whilst working here he wanted to ask my some personal questions and get my advice so asked if he could some and see me. we had a chat for probably 15 minutes in my office, I think I helped him a bit, then he carried on working. his house sheet did not reflect this either
in theory I am 30 minutes down on that day alone, I haven't checked other days on the cameras.
I know it's give and take and there has to be some trust along the way but this isn't the first time this has happened and when we talk about it he seems surprised to hear my point of view.
According to others we pay him a fair / above average rate. He lives 2 miles away so his fuel costs are not high.
Am I being completely unreasonable in letting him constantly round his hours up!? he does a good job and others like him are hard to find so I have put up with it but others in the family just think he is taking all the time, granted they are not really in the same mind set as me, I don't share their black and white view.
some may think I crack the whip but we have helped him out in numerous ways before, his personal life is a mess, he has had loans and other stuff off us in the past to help him along which he never seems grateful for.
I am just trying to gauge if I am being too kind / about right / too hard on him?!
TYIA