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Dementia is very difficult . My FIL has it and knows it but still refuses to accept that he can possibly be wrong .
He lost his workshop key a few weeks ago and blamed everyone for moving it but nobody had touched it .
We eventually found it in his bathroom on a shelf . There was no way he was going to admit to putting it there ...but he must have cos it's always in his pocket .
Keep notes like you have been doing but I wouldn't only do it in my personal diary but write it separately as well .
I'm sure the family would have noticed his decline and it sounds like you have been there for quite some yrs . Surely you would have built up enough of a relationship with one or other members of the family with whom you can have a quiet word about your concerns . .....
Difficult for you and I wish you all the best
He lost his workshop key a few weeks ago and blamed everyone for moving it but nobody had touched it .
We eventually found it in his bathroom on a shelf . There was no way he was going to admit to putting it there ...but he must have cos it's always in his pocket .
Keep notes like you have been doing but I wouldn't only do it in my personal diary but write it separately as well .
I'm sure the family would have noticed his decline and it sounds like you have been there for quite some yrs . Surely you would have built up enough of a relationship with one or other members of the family with whom you can have a quiet word about your concerns . .....
Difficult for you and I wish you all the best