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- Lincolnshire
Aren’t there things that your wife could wear to help with the snoring?
I think they help with breathing at night. Otherwise the spare room!
my wife doesn't snore but i often wake up ...get up ...have a cup of coffee.....and go back to sleep on sofa
i must be the only husband who gets wrong for sleeping on the sofa
This is the crux of the problem. My wife gets very very upset if I sleep in the spare room, to the point of saying we should separate if I won't sleep in the same bed. So I am placed in a very difficult position. Stay in the bed with her and struggle to sleep or just move into the spare room and risk divorce which I don't want.
I have found some earplugs work very well which is good, but for some reason they lose effectiveness after a couple of nights. New plugs work well. Hence I have ordered a large amount of them.
We went away at Christmas to my in laws and I ran short of ear plugs. I wasn't sleeping well. I think this brought on a particularly low mood and clouded my judgement.
It's somewhat disappointing that my wife won't take measures to reduce her snoring such as losing weight or trying some anti snoring devices but can't seem to do much about that. I don't blame her entirely as I think I am particularly sensitive to noise and am a light sleeper. I also snore like a hog as well, apparently.
Anyway, I hope to resolve this problem one way or another but hopefully with ear plugs.
It's a curious thing. I love my wife but struggle to sleep in the same bed as her. I'd rather sleep alone any day. I didn't think of this before I got married. But there again if I wasn't obsessing about this, it would be some other stupid thing.