- Location
- North Norfolk
He'll have to go for compulsary counselling by the rail company, normally 6 months to a year out of the seat, then it will be supervised driving for a time when he gets the all clear, whats made this one worse is he is an instructor and had a trainee in the cab as well. There was also another train involved, so in total 3 drivers now off, the girl jumped in front of 1 then got thrown into the train coming in the opposite direction, it wasn't pretty by how he described it to me
I hope that this won't be seen or considered as insensitive, but I just wonder - - the shock and upset come in various parts - Firstly dealing with the fact that another previously lucid human being has committed what many would see as the ultimate sin, Secondly that they have visited their thoughtless act upon an individual, and Thirdly the inevitable aftermath and remains.
The last (The Third) is the easiest to deal with, it's only blood and body parts - go get a job in an abattoir, you'll get used to it - - once life has gone, it is no more than flesh and blood. The second aspect - the suicidee didn't give a second thought to those lives which they would change - perhaps forever.
Firstly, and here's the important point - when the victim, the train driver gets his head around the fact that he is not to blame, that the poor soul who appeared in front of him had no evil intent, and that he (the victim train driver) is an innocent bystander, then he may perhaps be heading to a peace, of sorts.
[edit] It's a curious aspect to humanity, just how often we blame ourselves for something which is beyond our control.