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I'm sorry to hear that communication is essential between partners/spouses/family, in indeed every aspect of life. I think the reason why we do a lot of things can be because (a) we have always done it and we know we are very good at what we do... Or (b) we haven't tried other venues of what we might like to be doing instead. I think sometimes it's good to re-evaluate everything that we do and if certain things cause us a lot of displeasure we need to think of ways to making it easier or more interesting. It'll be ok you know, one bad day isn't the end of the world, we just have to soldier on and things will start to gradually come good again. Maybe best thing here would be to have a sit down and talk with your spouse about things TC xSo surprising how everything can appear to turn so quickly. Thought i'd been doing really well recently despite our serious lack of funds. Felt like i had had a good morning then my OH came home and we had a small misunderstanding/disagreement about my plan to move some pigs and also a seeming disparity between what she thought i was doing today and what i thought i was doing (throw in some disparity about what is actually possible on a farm where everything is f**king broken and there's no money to fix it and where i can only spend 2.5-3 days out of 7 actively working)
Subsequent to that i had to feed the farm and find myself picking up every bloody negative aspect of the place and the life we're living. Wondering what we're even doing it all for?!