Greenbeast
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Families eh?! Who'd have em!
Most people certainly wouldn't pick their own!
Families eh?! Who'd have em!
Very trueMost people certainly wouldn't pick their own!
Cheers Chris.GB has a point and quality sleep is a great asset to managing the coming day but alas when our minds are troubled sleep often evades us. Our what-if thoughts run round and round inside our heads and keep us from slipping into the arms of Morpheus and that may be why so many folk turn to alcohol and drugs.
Your need to talk things through is a very valid need that we all have but often don't have anyone to turn to that will listen without judgement or condemnation. Have you tried talking to the Samaritans, FCN, or your local clergy?
We are all here to support you the best we can but of course there are matters that you will be reluctant share on an open forum and we, more than most, will fully understand that.
Stay safe, stay well, and please remember that you are not alone.
Chris
Cheers Chris.
I understand what you're saying, but I think it'll sort itself out in the long run. I'm not in a bad place or seriously depressed, in fact I feel a huge amount better than I have been. More the uncertainty of everything, on edge and stuff. I just want things to be normal TBH. I can't say it on here as my brother is on here and may read it, but I don't know. Stay safe people and will give a read of that book if I can
Ah no ik but it's a good thing you did post it as some of my friends are having sleeping problems as well as some of my family, so it will be good to have a look at thatHaving an uncertain environment certainly makes peace hard to obtain but how others feel and interact with each other is completely out of ones control. Reflecting on how you can refrain from letting other's toxicity from infecting you is worthwhile.
The book reference was not a strict reply to your issue, as is the nature of threads like this, i felt like the denizens of this area could do with reading this regardless of what current conversation was ongoing. That being said, i really do recommend it regardless of one's health, mental or otherwise.
This was really hi lighted in my recent trip to Poland which I would suggest is about forty years behind us in most things in the upland farming world. We were only there a week and every farm we visited was run by a matriarchal women and her husband was either dead or had an acahol problem. The men still seemed to do all or most of the farm work but the women were definitely the boss and brains of the outfit.I would somewhat disagree with the gender issue. I think a serious problem for men in modern society is that we have been blamed for all of the wrongs in life and that we are currently in the midst of a feminist march for power and control. Men are feeling less and less relevant in life as our traditional roles are being usurped in the name of diversity.
If things go on as they are men will feel less and less worthwhile leading to more depression and a questioning of who we are and where do we fit in..
Glad you're improving and happy to helpHi guys.
Just came to say thank you for all the support you have given me over the past year or so. There have been moments which have been very dark for me and you have all really helped me through them. For this I cannot thank you all enough xx the bad situation last week has been resolved, which I am very thankful for, as my depression started creeping back and I was in an emotional mess for 2 days, not wanting to even work or go off the farm (even on to the lane). There will always be ups and downs for all of us but if we give each other unwavering support we will all make it through just fine. I truly hope everyone is feeling much better and please keep posting people.
Good night
Thanks Chris, it means a lot to hear thatGreat to hear the good feedback WBF. During the recent problems did you find your self getting very angry prior to the desire to get out and move on?
It took me many, many, years to discover that my diet influenced my sensitivity to events and accentuated my somewhat irritable responses to them, that then lead to a downward trend in psychological wellbeing.
The buffalo would have missed you greatly you know, had you left; as would your family.
Chris
I'm really sorry to hear thatReally feel like I need some winning right now, the farm is well on top of me, we're sinking fast and i don't know how we'll recover. Keep fairly good spirits most of the time even with ridiculous debts but when nothing goes right physically at the farm it makes it harder to bear.