Christoph1945
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- Widnes West Cheshire
Perhaps today is when organisations like the Samaritans come into their own! Sometimes those closest to us can seem indifferent to what we are telling them and our mountain, to them, can appear to be a molehill. Although it can be discouraging when others appear to be indifferent to what we tell them, our having verbalised our troubles can assist in reducing their power over us.
There are times, of course, when some folk just wouldn't like their nearest and dearest know about what internal turmoil is haunting them and this again is where the Samaritans can be of real value to some of the despairing.
It is a great pity that we were not taught mental hygiene at school but then would we have listened? Break our legs and most of us realise that healing (with help, support, and nursing) will take time and there may be lasting effects for some considerable time afterwards. Break our minds and many of us want instant healing, without the required factors that will best induce it.
Within this thread, I imagine that farming overload may be one of the greatest factors leading to anger/anxiety/depression and FCN would have folk that better understand the tribulations caused by the multitude of trials that beset struggling farmers and their families. As well as being active listeners FCN will more than likely be able to propose possible actions to assist in easing a farmer's general burdens but being a farm ignorant towny
I don't really know.
Stay safe, stay well, and pick up the phone
PS...........for anyone trying to support family and friends with psychological problems please try to realise that what you say may not be what they hear and an active listening ear may be one of the best things that you can offer them. I know that it isn't always easy and you yourself may require help, advice and support.
Chis
There are times, of course, when some folk just wouldn't like their nearest and dearest know about what internal turmoil is haunting them and this again is where the Samaritans can be of real value to some of the despairing.
It is a great pity that we were not taught mental hygiene at school but then would we have listened? Break our legs and most of us realise that healing (with help, support, and nursing) will take time and there may be lasting effects for some considerable time afterwards. Break our minds and many of us want instant healing, without the required factors that will best induce it.
Within this thread, I imagine that farming overload may be one of the greatest factors leading to anger/anxiety/depression and FCN would have folk that better understand the tribulations caused by the multitude of trials that beset struggling farmers and their families. As well as being active listeners FCN will more than likely be able to propose possible actions to assist in easing a farmer's general burdens but being a farm ignorant towny
I don't really know.
Stay safe, stay well, and pick up the phone
PS...........for anyone trying to support family and friends with psychological problems please try to realise that what you say may not be what they hear and an active listening ear may be one of the best things that you can offer them. I know that it isn't always easy and you yourself may require help, advice and support.
Chis
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