GrannyAching
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You need Ian Curtis to sing it
I hope you don’t mind, I’ll delete if it’s inappropriate
For his voice and talent, I assume you mean.
You need Ian Curtis to sing it
I hope you don’t mind, I’ll delete if it’s inappropriate
For his voice and talent, I assume you mean.
yes
oh, I try and ignore his end
pancreatic cancer is the worst sort of cancer my wife died of it when you witnes that you know there is not a godWe have a friend who was diagnosed with cervical cancer some years ago and underwent a hysterectomy and last year was diagnosed with slin cancer on her face. Our friend manages her diabetes quite well but this week she was also given a diagnosis of pancreatic cancer.
Not a lot that we can do medically for our friend but hopefully we will alwyas be on hand and ready to listen, whenever she needs a friendly ear. .
Stay safe, stay well. and please don't bottle things up!
yes the mc Millan nurses are a fine bunch of women, and yes to nurse someone through that is traumatic I don't think anyone will ever forget witnessing someone basically starving to death then of course there is the loss of losing someone who has been your partner for forty od years as a farmer its someone you lived with seven days a week three meals a day, then nothing.Bumpkin,
I am deeply sorry for your loss and hope that time is healing your pain. We did lose an other friend to pancreatic cancer some years ago but her demise was aggravated by alcoholism. We also lost my father-in-law to bone cancer and nursed him here, at home, until his last breath.
There were no Mc Millan nurses to support us and the journey was deeply traumatic for us all but we made his passing as comfortable as possible.
just over a year, not a day goes by when I don't think of her, nothing seems to be worth the botherNearly lost my wife three times in recent years; once to sepsis, and twice to pneumonia. With both our kids having flown the nest it was strange comming home to an empty house; the silence was immense and almost over powering. I can only imagine how it must be when the loss of a partner is total and complete.
How long has it been since your wife died and were you with her when she passed away?
just over a year, not a day goes by when I don't think of her, nothing seems to be worth the bother
my son works on the farm and lives across the yard with his family but to talk about it is too much I get too emotionalI hadn't realised that your loss was so recent and just how raw the pain must be. I know that it just isn't the same but do you have company on the farm and do you take time to talk about your wife?
So sorry if it offends, but face to face, there's no way a lady can offer the same support as a man for most of my concerns. Empathy yes, a different side, but a lot of the things I worry about are fairly shameful to admit. And while that may be stereotypical, that's as real as a 4am worrry.
my son works on the farm and lives across the yard with his family but to talk about it is too much I get too emotional
I can't say much to that, other than I'm really sorry for your loss, and for how you feel .just over a year, not a day goes by when I don't think of her, nothing seems to be worth the bother
my son works on the farm and lives across the yard with his family but to talk about it is too much I get too emotional
Although it's not easy talking about your loss, getting emotional isn't a show of weakness, i lost my mother just over a year ago, and my father still struggles to open up and let out his emotions, they were together for 54 years, and were rarely apart in all that time, although i'm sure your son would listen it's not always easy talking about it to your children, i've wrote down the samaritans telephone number for my dad, sometimes it's easier to talk to a complete stranger about these things,my son works on the farm and lives across the yard with his family but to talk about it is too much I get too emotional