We all have feelings, thoughts and behaviours, and they all interact with one another. The basis of Cognitive Behaviour Therapy is that we don’t have to let our emotions dictate our thoughts and behaviours. One video I watched said that our mind (feelings and thoughts) isn’t always a good friend, and can be a bit of a bully.I once read that some French bloke, Rene Descartes, wrote 'I think therefore I am' and Christians (and others) maintain that their scriptures say 'as a man/woman thinketh, then so is he/she'.
Based on the above quotes and considerable personal experience I can on only conclude that thinking and focusing on thoughts of frustration, anger, depression, and fear I can only anticipate the said emotions manifesting themselves in my daily living.
It all sounds very simple on paper but in practice 'perhaps' not quite so easy but it must be worth us trying to focus our thoughts on better emotions; success, hope, peace, contentment, joy, etc etc etc.
Perhaps we can hope for things as yet unseen!
It’s hard to get into the mindset of separating thoughts, emotions and behaviour when you are anxious and/ or depressed and you just “feel” low, tired, apathetic, hopeless, lacking agency, lost, etc. Sometimes medication helps people to get out of that “fog”. At the recommendation of my GP, I bought a book called Cognitive Behavioural Therapy for Dummies, and it’s pretty good.