- Location
- Mid Norfolk
I don't think calling him 'black' in this case is racist, but merely using his colour as an identifier because it's the most visually obvious and distinctive thing about him to someone who maybe doesn't know his life story or that he has a big dog. For example for me it would be
"I saw Chopsy earlier and she told me..."
"Chopsy who?"
"Big Chopsy"
"Oh right"
because I am unusually tall for a woman. No offence intended and none taken at someone stating the obvious unchangeable truth.
Do you need to change it? Only if John doesn't like his nickname. If you don't like describing him as Black John then don't. You could try RAF John but why not just ask him what he'd prefer as a nickname if there is a surfeit of John's in your area?
Black john isn't a nickname nor would I want to have such a conversation with someone who isn't a close friend. I know and refer to him by his forename and his surname and wouldn't want it any other way. I was highlighting how for others who know him it is his skin colour that identifies him above his career, dog or anything else.