Farmer Forgets His Family?

[Hfd Cattle]

A lot of wives forget there husbands are farmers !!

Mine doesn't....I hastily add !

 

[lloyd]

I'm worried about the OP she says her boyfriend spends
large amounts of his time digging holes but we haven't
heard from her since March 24th .

 

[milkloss]

Sorry guys, I'm going to be the one.......this might well have been a genuine ask for help. Maybe save this sort of stuff for the regular part of the forum.

 

[bazza3034]

Sorry long post and don't be too cruel with your comments. I just moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago. I don't really have anything to do with the farm work. Sometimes he'll take me and my son out with him to check on the cows but right now it seems like I'm mainly here to cook and clean so far like his mom would do. I do love my boyfriend more than anything in the world but he just isn't spending anytime with me at all. I mean none. He comes home for 5 minutes to eat and then he's gone until it's time for him to go to bed. He'll take his dad out to eat but not me.

He works full time and part time farms(his dad and uncle also take care of the farm, so he's not doing it alone). The stuff he's been doing lately is just busy work. I get that the farm is important but he will go visit his parents for hours, or play around on the excavator all day. The last time he took me out was to his grandpa's funeral. I don't really count a funeral as a date lol.

He said he's not neglecting me but it feels that way when he goes and makes time to talk to everyone else but can't manage to spend a couple minutes talking to me. He somehow managed to find free time when we were dating.

Am I being crazy here because I'm starting to feel like I'm his mom now instead of his girlfriend? Even his mom and sister are trying to talk some sense in him.

Your lucky he's only your boyfriend get out before he puts a band on your finger and then the real sh!t starts life's to short before you know ten years will pass and he ll find someone else, and goodluck to you happened a friend of mine

 

[fgc325j]

Sorry long post and don't be too cruel with your comments. I just moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago. I don't really have anything to do with the farm work. Sometimes he'll take me and my son out with him to check on the cows but right now it seems like I'm mainly here to cook and clean so far like his mom would do. I do love my boyfriend more than anything in the world but he just isn't spending anytime with me at all. I mean none. He comes home for 5 minutes to eat and then he's gone until it's time for him to go to bed. He'll take his dad out to eat but not me.

He works full time and part time farms(his dad and uncle also take care of the farm, so he's not doing it alone). The stuff he's been doing lately is just busy work. I get that the farm is important but he will go visit his parents for hours, or play around on the excavator all day. The last time he took me out was to his grandpa's funeral. I don't really count a funeral as a date lol.

He said he's not neglecting me but it feels that way when he goes and makes time to talk to everyone else but can't manage to spend a couple minutes talking to me. He somehow managed to find free time when we were dating.

Am I being crazy here because I'm starting to feel like I'm his mom now instead of his girlfriend? Even his mom and sister are trying to talk some sense in him.

Simple truth for you - all a Farmer wants from his wife is to take over from his mother, and treat him like exactly like she treated him i.e a little prince.

 

[roscoe erf]

click bait

 

[Fendt516profi]

Simple truth for you - all a Farmer wants from his wife is to take over from his mother, and treat him like exactly like she treated him i.e a little prince.

Actually there's a little more to the job requirements

 

[Mc115reed]

Simple truth for you - all a Farmer wants from his wife is to take over from his mother, and treat him like exactly like she treated him i.e a little prince.

I mean your close.... but I defiantly wouldn’t want too do some the things I do with my mrs with my mother....

 

[fgc325j]

I mean your close.... but I defiantly wouldn’t want too do some the things I do with my mrs with my mother....

Ok!! - i should have stated SPOILT - you'd be suprised at the number of farmer's who can't make a cup of tea/coffee because
putting water in a household appliance is "woman's work".

 

[Mc115reed]

Ok!! - i should have stated SPOILT - you'd be suprised at the number of farmer's who can't make a cup of tea/coffee because
putting water in a household appliance is "woman's work".

I mean it’s the dream... but women like that don’t come around anymore [emoji22]

 

[betweenthelines]

Ok!! - i should have stated SPOILT - you'd be suprised at the number of farmer's who can't make a cup of tea/coffee because
putting water in a household appliance is "woman's work".

Not only farmers!

I can recall ex footballer Phil Neville saying he had to phone his wife for instructions when a journalist visiting his home asked for a cup of coffee as he had never made one. Wonder how he explained that when he became Manager of the England Women's team?

 

[Kidds]

A very reliable source told me Michael Owen wouldn't know how to make a cup of tea.

 

[Frodo]

Ok!! - i should have stated SPOILT - you'd be suprised at the number of farmer's who can't make a cup of tea/coffee because
putting water in a household appliance is "woman's work".

I was shocked when a couple stayed over and the husband didn’t have a clue what his wife took in her tea/coffee.

 

[Bury the Trash]

Ok!! - i should have stated SPOILT - you'd be suprised at the number of farmer's who can't make a cup of tea/coffee because
putting water in a household appliance is "woman's work".

what a load of rubbish.

 

[Treg]

My ex girlfriend didn't know how to use a vacuum cleaner, so it can work both ways.

 

[Fendt65]

My ex girlfriend didn't know how to use a vacuum cleaner, so it can work both ways.

What the vacuum cleaner blows as well as sucks!

 

[Extreme Optimist]

A very reliable source told me Michael Owen wouldn't know how to make a cup of tea.

and if he did, he'd probably get injured making it!!!

 

[Lofty1984]

Not that it matters as such but are you in the UK or USA with "Mom"

Pet hate of mine the use of mom becoming the norm in the country

 

[MickyMook]

Have a sympathetic response lined up that I would hope would be insightful in some way....but don't know if OP is actually reading responses...?

 

[Henarar]

Have a sympathetic response lined up that I would hope would be insightful in some way....but don't know if OP is actually reading responses...?

perhaps she thought sod it and left