- Location
- East Essexshire
No offence but I think you're going away and coming back like a moth to a light bulb maybe adding potential instability to the teamwork. Or at least maybe that's how they see it.
It appears you argue sometimes with the family, I was wondering how those arguments finish? If it involves you storming off then it only shows you cannot be relied upon to finish a job.
You're not Amateur Dave are you?not fighting over it its more im prevented from doing it as a fathers son and nephew from farms and I always wanted a hand at mowing or harvesting. now I have to go else where because they are being c**nts about it. even now..but praise others for doing it though. I did ask not to see it as childish its more of a case of farming family hierarchy. so if you used to do it with your brother then so what do nowadays ARW? did you do al the jobs did you get all the experience?
Boohoo, my dad won't let me mow a field. You're 38, not 12!!
Use your computer degree to make some serious money and buy your own farm that you can mow to your hearts content!
Yer fither is doing you a huge favour tractor driving is not good, go use your degree and earn some proper money, anyway more skill doing the pit porperly than mowing.your tactful to be sure. im just pee'd off that im still treated the same way I was when I was 12 in fact thats the problem so il just expand the business and get myself a farm or some ground I did have 4 acres with the wife though was fun while it lasted.....
Hello Spud thanks for your post Im actually close with all my brothers 3 of them I think my family operates in a way that much different dynamic with others and most would stay at the farm as opposed to leaving and coming back can be disconcerting. I see that. kid brother is away overseas doing the contracting work as well. its an age old attitude that was handed out to me regarding tractor duties thats im annoyed with yes it sounds small and insignificant the work was there and I was dismissed from it and still in favour of others yes I do need to get away from the family farm in regards to that I had a house and 4 acres tried to do it but getting divorced probably hope the settlement will help to get my own place with ground as such and work away. I appreciate your input to this spud it seems you have to be a serious partner to be taken serious I think. I was never taken serious in that way possibly and due to my main interest in computers or CCTV in agriculture which I do make a decent return on. my family as such are not good role sharers as such fiercely want to take on every job.
Again I hope your farm thrives on your own hard work into it. guess thats what it takes to be taken seriously in farms not just to seen asking to do mowing silage harvester or what not thought I wasn't asking much anyway...but theres no better reward than achieving it for yourself and only myself.
do you do anything else than other the farm itself?
I thought it was sleepy.You're not Amateur Dave are you?