Walterp
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- Pembrokeshire
Julie and me have spent years trying to extricate ourselves from an unhappy and dysfunctional family partnership; but, somehow, the harder we tried to break free, the tighter the bindings became. Maybe I should've guessed this at the outset...'cos that's probably a good working definition of 'dysfunctional', isn't it?
Anyway, we've now finally forced a sale by auction of the one farm that was jointly-owned. The other holdings we farm we already either own (or rent, for some off-lying ground for Julie's sheep) so it's just the one bit of the one farm we have to buy back.
So it'd be easy, right?
Yeah, but.....even when you've beaten off the erstwhile family partners (on the grounds of litigation fatigue, getting impoverished by greedy lawyers, or just not being determined enough) you get to meet 'viewers' instead.
Now I've always thought that anyone who took the trouble to 'walk' a farm was, along with all that walking, also ready to talk the talk: were they interested? or not? did they REALLY have the money? or not? in other words - are they serious? Admittedly, some viewers are dead straightforward - they say what they think (perfectly sensible remarks like "nuts, nuts, they're all nuts..." and "I'm not getting involved in that carp...") but, equally, others are very hard to fathom.
Why, for instance, would someone without the money bother to walk a place? Are they pretending they're more interested than they are? Or just pretending that they have more money than they do? But why would they bother, either way? Is curiosity REALLY that strong?
Me? I've got the Heineken test - taken from a charming old gent who sold up near Llandeilo a long time ago - which says that if, after talking to a viewer for half an hour, you feel like taking him into the kitchen and offering to open a couple of cans of beer and have a chat about the farm, you've identified a prospect. Relying on beer-gut instinct, perhaps...
But my Heineken remains in the fridge, unopened. Does that mean that there are more farm 'tourists' than I thought, or that I'm just not asking the right questions?
Anyway, we've now finally forced a sale by auction of the one farm that was jointly-owned. The other holdings we farm we already either own (or rent, for some off-lying ground for Julie's sheep) so it's just the one bit of the one farm we have to buy back.
So it'd be easy, right?
Yeah, but.....even when you've beaten off the erstwhile family partners (on the grounds of litigation fatigue, getting impoverished by greedy lawyers, or just not being determined enough) you get to meet 'viewers' instead.
Now I've always thought that anyone who took the trouble to 'walk' a farm was, along with all that walking, also ready to talk the talk: were they interested? or not? did they REALLY have the money? or not? in other words - are they serious? Admittedly, some viewers are dead straightforward - they say what they think (perfectly sensible remarks like "nuts, nuts, they're all nuts..." and "I'm not getting involved in that carp...") but, equally, others are very hard to fathom.
Why, for instance, would someone without the money bother to walk a place? Are they pretending they're more interested than they are? Or just pretending that they have more money than they do? But why would they bother, either way? Is curiosity REALLY that strong?
Me? I've got the Heineken test - taken from a charming old gent who sold up near Llandeilo a long time ago - which says that if, after talking to a viewer for half an hour, you feel like taking him into the kitchen and offering to open a couple of cans of beer and have a chat about the farm, you've identified a prospect. Relying on beer-gut instinct, perhaps...
But my Heineken remains in the fridge, unopened. Does that mean that there are more farm 'tourists' than I thought, or that I'm just not asking the right questions?