- Location
- Lincolnshire
I allways thought that when in hospital people would receive the best care possible, experience has shown that to not necessarily be the case. We have no choice but to entrust ourselves to the medical profession when in need but I certainly dont have blind faith in them, it would seem they are just as capable of screwing up or being incompetent as any other member of society, and no doubt just as in any other profession, some are far better at their job than others. You should of seen the look of horror on mother’s face one night about 12 months ago when we realised that dad needed to go into hospital, previous experience has been extremely tough on mother but as someone who deals with livestock daily I know when I’m out of my depth and professional help is required, dad had an infection in his cheek, the GP had prescribed antibiotics but he’d only had a couple of pills on a week long course of 24, he was hot and unresponsive, getting him to hospital was the only thing to do despite all the fears and memory’s of what had gone before.
But elderly care does seem to be a real problem, on the times dad has been in hospital we have met people, complete strangers who are equally frustrated at how the system operates, we also talk to people who have had or know of people who have had similar bad experiences .
We and many others have had a very similar experience when dad was in hospital here. He went in walking for an op. Op was completely unsuccessful and he came out bedridden after weeks of indecision and neglect. There was me thinking it would be a 24/7 service. Nothing major was ever done Friday to Monday. By Tuesday they had just about got going again. Bit of action Wednesday, then Thursday running down for the weekend. If mother hadn't fed him he would have starved to death. 10% of time laid on a trolley between wards. They also wanted to put him in a home, but we managed to get him back home after weeks of assessing the house by clipboards. He spent the last months of his life in very much less than optimum circumstances thanks to the NHS, apart from the final few weeks back home when the care agency did a marvellous job.
Utter shambles. When I get to that stage, I will not go to hospital. Worst place you can be if you are old and struggling. Whole system needs a rethink.