I am getting married this summer at my parents farm (in France) and I am interested to hear of any ideas for making it one to remember. It is a challenge to keep my parents from dominating the whole thing with what they think we should do etc so I would like some ideas of little things that make a difference. Basically, marquee (which we have bought) in front of swimming pool, cattle trough full of ice with beers, gin bar and copious amounts of wine. There will be a band and music for later (all outside). Was going to decorate a small sheep shed up the hill with bunting and little lights with bales inside and a little fire pit outside for cooking marshmallows. Any ideas or things we should avoid?