Wheyibuggermair
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- Location
- Northumberland,
Having, thankfully, given up on the idea of livery and decided to just enjoy me wee bit of heaven.
However I got a phone call from a funeral director a week or so back asking if I had given any more thought to his suggestion of 'woodland burials'
To cut a long story short, tragically my daughter in law died 5 years ago, but she surprised us by asking if she could be buried on our land, as we had made it common knowledge over the years it's where we intended to be planted we obviously had no problem with her request.
But a few months later the funeral director phoned us up asking if we were interested in allowing others to be planted there( he was extremely sensitive in his approach) but we said no, just family and friends.
However he occasionally phones and asks if we would reconsider, as apparently we have the ideal location,
Apparently the norm is open fields with a tree planted to mark the grave? Whereas ours is semi mature woodland with lots of meadows/ open spaces.
Now giving it some thought as we could easily keep a good degree of separation from our private plot and the 'neighbours'
My one concern is ' visiting rights'
Anyone else considered this? And, as a general question, is it unusual for landowners/ farmowners to be be buried on their own property?
However I got a phone call from a funeral director a week or so back asking if I had given any more thought to his suggestion of 'woodland burials'
To cut a long story short, tragically my daughter in law died 5 years ago, but she surprised us by asking if she could be buried on our land, as we had made it common knowledge over the years it's where we intended to be planted we obviously had no problem with her request.
But a few months later the funeral director phoned us up asking if we were interested in allowing others to be planted there( he was extremely sensitive in his approach) but we said no, just family and friends.
However he occasionally phones and asks if we would reconsider, as apparently we have the ideal location,
Apparently the norm is open fields with a tree planted to mark the grave? Whereas ours is semi mature woodland with lots of meadows/ open spaces.
Now giving it some thought as we could easily keep a good degree of separation from our private plot and the 'neighbours'
My one concern is ' visiting rights'
Anyone else considered this? And, as a general question, is it unusual for landowners/ farmowners to be be buried on their own property?