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Dealing with depression - suicidal thoughts - Join the conversation (including helpline details)
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<blockquote data-quote="Juggler" data-source="post: 6482826" data-attributes="member: 203"><p>Sorry to hear this, it's a bit of a self fulfilling prophecy once you start believing your life is bad and that bad things will happen.. they will.. the reckless behaviour is a symptom of depression, not caring what happens to you opens the door to allow bad situations and bad people to have an effect on your life that would not otherwise happen, like you say its a cycle you need to find a way to break, not easy but not impossible.</p><p>I wish I had the answer, I know once you get pulled down by things its tough not to stay down, but there's a quote I like, 'Fall down 7 times, stand up 8'. Keep getting back up and try and tell yourself you are worth more, stop associating with people who don't have your best interests at heart, it may sound daft but your internal dialogue with yourself will manifest itself and have an effect on your life, so bad dialogue, bad things happen, the good news is that a good internal dialogue will result in good things happening, might sound daft but from my own experience its true.</p><p>What makes you happy? What moves you? Walking? Solitude? Sport? Music? There will be something non-farm related that you at least used to enjoy doing, re visit it, you might find the old you still there. </p><p>I wish you the best of luck, this place is very special, populated with very special people, you'll be ok, you just have to believe it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Juggler, post: 6482826, member: 203"] Sorry to hear this, it's a bit of a self fulfilling prophecy once you start believing your life is bad and that bad things will happen.. they will.. the reckless behaviour is a symptom of depression, not caring what happens to you opens the door to allow bad situations and bad people to have an effect on your life that would not otherwise happen, like you say its a cycle you need to find a way to break, not easy but not impossible. I wish I had the answer, I know once you get pulled down by things its tough not to stay down, but there's a quote I like, 'Fall down 7 times, stand up 8'. Keep getting back up and try and tell yourself you are worth more, stop associating with people who don't have your best interests at heart, it may sound daft but your internal dialogue with yourself will manifest itself and have an effect on your life, so bad dialogue, bad things happen, the good news is that a good internal dialogue will result in good things happening, might sound daft but from my own experience its true. What makes you happy? What moves you? Walking? Solitude? Sport? Music? There will be something non-farm related that you at least used to enjoy doing, re visit it, you might find the old you still there. I wish you the best of luck, this place is very special, populated with very special people, you'll be ok, you just have to believe it. [/QUOTE]
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