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Dealing with depression - suicidal thoughts - Join the conversation (including helpline details)
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<blockquote data-quote="DrWazzock" data-source="post: 7206221" data-attributes="member: 2119"><p>It's 16 years since my first partner dumped me, not to put too a fine a point on it. It was the first time I knew what a broken heart felt like, and it really was like being ill. I hadn't realised until that time what a broken heart was. I had only known my partner for three years and it was bad enough. Stings like hell at the time. I'd like to say you will soon be over it, but that would be a lie. It will take time, but things will improve gradually. It's not necessarily anybody's fault as such but just one of those horrible things that happens as circumstances and expectations change. I don't and never will blame my ex partner. We just arrived at mismatch. Wounds heal with time but there will always be a pull on the heart strings at certain memories.</p><p>You sound like a decent bloke. Hope things work out best they can under the circumstances. There's probably a lot to sort out. For us there wasn't much as we'd no kids. I found that it was counterproductive to maintain anymore contact than was strictly necessary once the relationship was beyond salvaging. Contact just rubbed salt into wounds.</p><p>Best wishes.</p><p>Yes [USER=136464]@Chopsy Varmint[/USER] , your analogy that we are like a piece of broken china badly stuck back together will stay with me for a long time. It's very very apt.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DrWazzock, post: 7206221, member: 2119"] It's 16 years since my first partner dumped me, not to put too a fine a point on it. It was the first time I knew what a broken heart felt like, and it really was like being ill. I hadn't realised until that time what a broken heart was. I had only known my partner for three years and it was bad enough. Stings like hell at the time. I'd like to say you will soon be over it, but that would be a lie. It will take time, but things will improve gradually. It's not necessarily anybody's fault as such but just one of those horrible things that happens as circumstances and expectations change. I don't and never will blame my ex partner. We just arrived at mismatch. Wounds heal with time but there will always be a pull on the heart strings at certain memories. You sound like a decent bloke. Hope things work out best they can under the circumstances. There's probably a lot to sort out. For us there wasn't much as we'd no kids. I found that it was counterproductive to maintain anymore contact than was strictly necessary once the relationship was beyond salvaging. Contact just rubbed salt into wounds. Best wishes. Yes [USER=136464]@Chopsy Varmint[/USER] , your analogy that we are like a piece of broken china badly stuck back together will stay with me for a long time. It's very very apt. [/QUOTE]
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