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Hfd Cattle

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Mixed Farmer
Location
Hereford
I have a similar situation here. Elderly relatives with severe health issues it’s harder than you expect. Wife does 90% of it and we have carers in four times a day now for two of them. Probably been on with it for five years or more now, not moaning about it but it’s hard going for the rest of the family.
I know what you are going through
Difficult here too . FIL only been here for 2 yrs but it's hard work . Thankfully we built a small annexe for him else we would never have coped . It's very trying and his dementia is getting worse now . Had to talk to him yesterday about the way he talks to his carers but I know he will just ignore it .
........makes farming look easy !!
 

Jimdog1

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Mixed Farmer
Location
Devon
I have a similar situation here. Elderly relatives with severe health issues it’s harder than you expect. Wife does 90% of it and we have carers in four times a day now for two of them. Probably been on with it for five years or more now, not moaning about it but it’s hard going for the rest of the family.
I know what you are going through
It's tough isn't it. We looked after my Dad for many years although mentally he was sharp the hard years had broken his body. Dementia is a whole different ball game though - not sure we could have done that.
 

Hilly

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Difficult here too . FIL only been here for 2 yrs but it's hard work . Thankfully we built a small annexe for him else we would never have coped . It's very trying and his dementia is getting worse now . Had to talk to him yesterday about the way he talks to his carers but I know he will just ignore it .
........makes farming look easy !!
Been through it also , Dad had dementia, its a difficult time for sure.
 
Difficult here too . FIL only been here for 2 yrs but it's hard work . Thankfully we built a small annexe for him else we would never have coped . It's very trying and his dementia is getting worse now . Had to talk to him yesterday about the way he talks to his carers but I know he will just ignore it .
........makes farming look easy !!
Yes they have been brought up in a different era and things they say aren’t acceptable now
Hard to get them to realise that
 

Mc115reed

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Livestock Farmer
Been through it also , Dad had dementia, its a difficult time for sure.
If i ever get that way I want too make sure my kids and mrs know full well I just want putting in a home and leaving too it I hate the thought of being a massive burden on everyone, you see people who can’t go too work or anything and ending up in a right mess because they’ve ended up putting caring for there parents and I don’t wanna end up like that
 
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Mules At 150% 😆
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If i ever get that way I want too make sure my kids and mrs know full well I just want putting in a home and leaving too it I hate the thought of being a massive burden on everyone, you see people who can’t go too work or anything and ending up in a right mess because they’ve ended up putting caring for there parents and I don’t wanna end up like that
Problem is it’s maybe 2k a month to go in a home and they have to pay if they have over 20/25k in the bank
If they get below that the council will take the money off the estate/house at the end
Not much fun really when folks have saved up to end up there
Carers at home costing £1500 a month
I’m just pleased cake and fert is so dear so I won’t have that problem
 

hendrebc

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Livestock Farmer
If i ever get that way I want too make sure my kids and mrs know full well I just want putting in a home and leaving too it I hate the thought of being a massive burden on everyone, you see people who can’t go too work or anything and ending up in a right mess because they’ve ended up putting caring for there parents and I don’t wanna end up like that
Easy to say that paying for it is the problem.
 

Hfd Cattle

Member
Mixed Farmer
Location
Hereford
Easy to say that paying for it is the problem.
Yes the extention we put up was about 50 grand. We are about 2 yrs down the line so that's basically paid for itself .... without being unkind we are hoping for his sake and ours that he pops off before needing a care home !!

....I must admit to smiling to some if the things he says .......🙂🙂
OH is horrified !!!
 

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