glasshouse
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Once they get over 75, rationality goes out the windowBit of a bugger if you can’t trust your parents word on your future , unfortunately there seems to be quite a few manipulative parents out there .
Once they get over 75, rationality goes out the windowBit of a bugger if you can’t trust your parents word on your future , unfortunately there seems to be quite a few manipulative parents out there .
Leave it to a trustIf a will can be contested and with enough money pushed towards a good lawyer why bother writing a will. My uncle indicated I was to get his share once he died of a family partnership. I’d been working there since I was old enough to work. All got left to kid he fathered with the local bike. Ended up having to borrow heavily to keep the family farm in one piece. I’ve two girls that are unlikely to farm but don’t want the farm sold and the money frittered away.how does anyone ever write a will to ensure neither can contest it.
And I think don't cut anyone out of a will, rather, leave them a smaller bequest, then write a hand written letter to any potential judge explaining why the will was written in the way it was.My understanding is that you can only contest a will if there is sufficient grounds for doing so .
Friend who is a Solicitor says many people think that they can contest a will but it has to be decided by a court that there is sufficient ground for it to be contested and that is usually not the case. This is a simple part of it . It's when a court decides that, there are possible grounds for a will to be contested , then it can get messy and expensive.
mediation can work but it needs all parties to agreeIn any case where a will is being contested the first port of call before court action should be mediation .
going through the process now £1000 dosn't go far!Predictable response! The parties would have to decide if the final net yield was worth it.
Farmers don’t flinch at £100k for a machine or a cow or a sheep, yet spending maybe £1k on a legal review of handing over the reins / taking over the reins / recording all the promises is so traumatic that very few do it properly. It’s teamwork with the accountants too.
As said above this is a known problem and it is peculiar to farming because the assets are so valuable, the income so modest, and it involves families living above the shop. It’s the classic stitch in time… and the lawyers are saying it, so don’t be too harsh on the profession!
Dementia is a bit of a bugger too and wills can get changed.Bit of a bugger if you can’t trust your parents word on your future , unfortunately there seems to be quite a few manipulative parents out there .
Try telling my sister that !nobody is "entitled" to any of their parents money when they die, its up to them to decide how to distribute its their money, different if theyve made promises and people have made sacrifices off the back of this obviously
Its factualTry telling my sister that !
I was wondering about all this will contesting was thinking off adding wording along the lines off
if anyone contests this will they and there descendants are to be automatically removed from receiving any thing from the late state
Is it though , there's no clear run what ever route you take ,Not withstanding untimely deaths, the best option is give it while you are alive.
The point of the thread is that tax is not the only potential cost. If it is more tax efficient but the family then hate each when you die it is not a good emotional outcome, also a family prepared to work together and co-operate is likely to return more £ to the family over time so there is a £ value to getting everything done cards on the table ahead of time.Is it though , there's no clear run what ever route you take ,
pass asset over before death pay the CGT or use hold over .
Leave it to death no CGT may get 100 % APR/ BPR and get a ' free ' up-to-date reset value for future CGT on future sale .
As things stand at the minute ....