Baling Hay
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I started a thread on this on another forum. Something like natural selection in reverse. I was the academic one of my siblings so was encouraged to go and get a real job like an accountant and not get stuck on the farm as that was for the slower kids. I got a lot of flack for it. Not being academic does not mean you are stupid and some of the best minds we have ever had have been hopeless scholars. But there is a general correlation and I see it in pretty much every farm I grew up near. The 'smart' kids went, the least academic stayed behind. Maybe that child was the best potential farmer but when it comes to sitting through a lecture on soil structure, they are not prepared for that. It multiplies through the generations too.
The irony in my family is that the sibling who was chosen to run the farm didn't want it. I was the country lad. I was the one who went to work as a beater and picker up on the local estate. I was the one out fetching firewood. I was the one who walked the dog in our fields while he was plugged into a ZX spectrum. I was the one who was told from day one that farming was not for me as I had a better life ahead of me. So I've wasted a good number of years half seeking this better life and he wasted a lot of years farming badly, like dad did.
The truth is somewhere in between. The best businesses have a range of skills and they work together. The problem with farming today is that it is assumed that there is only enough income for one person on the farm but in many cases, if dad could stand aside, other than giving advice, he may find that his kids can work together and create something amazing. But no, he just swears by what grandad said and refuses to sway from that and the farm fails. Bah. Apologies.
Very true words spoken here. My dad refuses to change and has no interest in any other methods etc. But yet he was the smart one and trained as a vet at University. Had a veterinary business which helped pay off the farm we bought. However, he refuses to implement change on the farm and would rather farm like it was the 70s.