Feeling pretty down about work at the moment, partner in a family farm alongside parents (70s) and sibling (48) I'm 41 very shortly and have a wife and 2 kids under 8, I seem to be working more and more every year for what seems like less return (sure everyone feels the same !) The business is asset rich but cash poor and I feel with upcoming uncertainty due to Brexit and other family issues, I feel going in the future is going to be difficult, i have a good relationship with my parents and and up until a couple of years ago a good relationship with sibling, though recently it has become VERY strained. We are very different people and want different things out of life for our respective families, I don't want to be like my parents and have worked all their lives and now don't have much to show for it, due to always putting the business first. My wife says I would be better if I was away from them but completely understands that I have a loyalty to my parents and would feel like I was massively letting them down if I left ! If I left it would mean selling up to pay me out so that would be the end of another family farm around this area (not many left) Basically what I'm asking is has anyone done this and regretted it or not regretted it ? I would like to sort it out before we are forced to sort it out by a parents passing/major fall out with sibling. Sorry for the length of post and thanks in advance