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- Owaka, New Zealand
I'm not sure what "the answer" is.I’m sure these prescriptions were easier when life expectancy was shorter. With today’s longer life expectancy the future and all its possibilities, which most of us won’t take advantage of for a variety of reasons, yawns ahead of us. I think this is a cause of a lot of stress. The massive amount of unrealised choice out there. My husband is deeply dis-satified with life on the farm( he doesn’t do any of the farming per se, just having the work and busyness around annoys him tremendously). When I ask what he would prefer he gives me all sorts of unrealistic suggestions-basically ‘not this’. So how do you go about finding a solution to ‘ not this’? Today is our 34 th wedding anniversary
I know what my answer is... understanding the cause of the cognitive dissonance, and just deciding to make the best of the good stuff.
(There's always not-good stuff).
That was probably why I got so depressed, just a general tendency to be negative, I made it a goal to catch myself doing it and stop it.
Not "turn it around", to me that's delusional.. just stop and refocus on something I do like about "pressure I'm under"
I don't like what money does, but I do have enough to go around
I don't like staying in one place, but I can build something bloody brilliant where I am
I don't know if that's anyone elses' answer or not!
Happy anniversary