- Location
- Cornwall
Didn't know if I could like @holwellcourtfarm post or not, but I see what he is saying, the longer it takes to hit rock bottom the more damage done en-route.Even with two kids involved?
Question is, is the current environment the best you can provide for your kids? At the end of the day no one can provide the perfect childhood, money, time location all play a part. My daughter doesn't know my parents even though they live only 20 minutes away, but the situation means I feel it's better than exposing her to what is a toxic underlying situation, it's sad but best for her. I know it's not great, but the lesser of two evils. Your situation is obviously different, so it up to you to make a judgement. Maybe the risk of a breakdown will make her seek help, maybe it will drive her deeper into the bottle, only you can guess that I'm afraid.