I maybe could have handled this better, but I'm a pretty good judge of character generally and this one I reacted to very quickly.
Chap turned up in the yard, ( we're 1/2 a mile off the main road and its a dead end once here ) nice shiny black newish car, well dressed, asking to speak to a vaguely described chap that he says he saw here 6 months ago, well that chap has never been here. I then asked him for his name and company he worked for, reply was, I don't have to give you that information, at which point I asked him to leave, he didn't, just returned to his story. At this point the red mist desended ( like I say, very unusual for me ) and asked him to leave in a firm tone, still went back to his story, at this point I lost the plot and shouting started, he did eventually leave, but not quickly.
Puppies and GPS been disappearing in the area of late, and we have both.
How should I have handled this ?
Chap turned up in the yard, ( we're 1/2 a mile off the main road and its a dead end once here ) nice shiny black newish car, well dressed, asking to speak to a vaguely described chap that he says he saw here 6 months ago, well that chap has never been here. I then asked him for his name and company he worked for, reply was, I don't have to give you that information, at which point I asked him to leave, he didn't, just returned to his story. At this point the red mist desended ( like I say, very unusual for me ) and asked him to leave in a firm tone, still went back to his story, at this point I lost the plot and shouting started, he did eventually leave, but not quickly.
Puppies and GPS been disappearing in the area of late, and we have both.
How should I have handled this ?