fickle itis

[spin cycle]

i think i have the above condition......my symptoms are....thinking of how to do a job...10mins later thinking of a better way then 10 mins later deciding the first way was better.....afterwards wishing i'd done it the other way

also i'll arrange to do something on a certain day then change my mind/wish i'd done it another day and done something else

any other sufferers?

 

[theboytheboy]

Yes. I over think everything and end up getting little done....paralysis by analysis.

 

[jade35]

i think i have the above condition......my symptoms are....thinking of how to do a job...10mins later thinking of a better way then 10 mins later deciding the first way was better.....afterwards wishing i'd done it the other way

also i'll arrange to do something on a certain day then change my mind/wish i'd done it another day and done something else

any other sufferers?

There is a cure - live with a sensible woman who will offer good advice on how to complete the job easily and within a quick timescale as a male you will do the exact opposite and then................................................




well you know the rest of the story

 

[spin cycle]

There is a cure - live with a sensible woman who will offer good advice on how to complete the job easily and within a quick timescale as a male you will do the exact opposite and then................................................




well you know the rest of the story

i do have a lovely sensible wife.....but as a husband i've got a habit of not listening

 

[Bury the Trash]

I read thread title quickly and thought - Sounds really painful ...... "fickle tits" ..
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[spin cycle]

I read thread title quickly and thought - Sounds really painful ...... "fickle tits" ..
.......................

be a good nickname for the wife...i'll get me coat

 

[jade35]

i do have a lovely sensible wife.....but as a husband i've got a habit of not listening

There is nothing more to say than it is all self inflicted



Joking aside, there was an article in the DT the other day about people over thinking and worrying about everything and the effect of this continual 'churning' of information on the brain and health. The suggestion was that you took a few minutes a day to sit and think about these concerns, write them down and work out how you are going to deal with them ie whether they were important enough to deal with that day or were something that could be dealt with later or wasn't important. Gradually the brain becomes used to working in this way and becomes more settled. A very simplistic view of the article but you get the idea. So theoretically, breakfast time can become thinking time and you can quickly run through the pro's and con's of the different ways of doing the day's jobs, get the wife's approval and everything will work wonderfully




All I have to do now is convince OH that I am not a mindreader all the time and yes, he does need to talk about his plans for moving stock etc in advance and not 10 minutes beforehand Men

 

[simmy_bull]

There is nothing more to say than it is all self inflicted



Joking aside, there was an article in the DT the other day about people over thinking and worrying about everything and the effect of this continual 'churning' of information on the brain and health. The suggestion was that you took a few minutes a day to sit and think about these concerns, write them down and work out how you are going to deal with them ie whether they were important enough to deal with that day or were something that could be dealt with later or wasn't important. Gradually the brain becomes used to working in this way and becomes more settled. A very simplistic view of the article but you get the idea. So theoretically, breakfast time can become thinking time and you can quickly run through the pro's and con's of the different ways of doing the day's jobs, get the wife's approval and everything will work wonderfully




All I have to do now is convince OH that I am not a mindreader all the time and yes, he does need to talk about his plans for moving stock etc in advance and not 10 minutes beforehand Men

Wonderful creatures we are