My husband killed himself while I slept - Continue the discussion about mental health

[Al R]

WHAT A DAY, i attended Plymouth magistrates court today, i have never encountered such an arrogant , corrupt and up their arse set of people in my life !!!
Firstly i will do the fun part of the day. i was in the company of a delightfull 21 year old mother with an enchanting 10 month old baby girl.
we ended a sh!t day at plymouth magistrates court with a visit to my fav shop, for £59 inc vat i got a much coveted pole chain saw complete with 4 amp li ion battery.
within 30 mins of arriving home, i had had my coffee and completed a pruning task the boss had been stressing about for 3 years, believe me it was an immense relief to complete
and earned many many brownie points.
Now the sh!t PART, i attended the plymouth magistrates court in the delightful company of a rather naive 21 year old and her 10 month old daughter Lacey.
i tell you the old boy is still able to charm the ladies. 2 alcoholic druggies [ her thieving parents] had made an allegation to the cops that her live in boy friend had viciously assaulted her on sat night. this allegation was just the latest one of many since the baby was born, the mere fact that the boyfriend was out all night fishing trip and corroberated fe reliable witnesses, and vigorously denied by the girl herself was totally disregarded . the sentence handed down by a panel of 3 magistrates was that the boy friend should only make contact
in the presence of a police officer, failure to comply would result in instant arrest. he is banned from approaching the family home where the tools of his trade are kept and made homeless and with out the means to earn his living. there is no pot of money held in reserve, and the rent, £750 is due to the landlord tomorrow Friday..
there is no money in the house and no food in ther cupboad and the milk supply, the baby being breastfed fed, is rapidly drying up.
I , on trying to point this out was marched out of the court on the order of the chief magistrate. this is in Devon, august 2018 against the constituents of the rt hon attorney general,
the highest paid politician in the land.
case number CR/076116/18.

What on Earth are you going on about now @joe soapy

 

[joe soapy]

exactly what happened yesterday at the local kangarroo court.
boy who does some work for us, the only access the court has given him permission for is to pay money he does not have into a bank account the court knew she does not have .

the old saying that you pay peanuts, you get monkeys, i not sure magistrates get paid at all, they certainly have less intelligence than the average monkey.

i now understand why my brother who was a magistrate in the family court,, the only time i have ever heard him use profane language was when he came home that day he walked away after 20 years service and told them where to stick it

 

[joe soapy]

Need a bit of info, local boy put his car through a hedge last night near holsworthy, he hitched a lift home with some mates,
somebody said the field belonged to a big dairy farmer called axford? . of course being dark they havent a clue where it was

 

[Whitewalker]

my best friend hung himself just over a month ago,there were no warning signs and he didnt leave a note explaining why. Its devastating for those who are left behind and i keep asking myself if we should have spotted something or if we are to blame for not sensing something was up!

https://lm.facebook.com/l.php?u=htt...yDbfYNKcQRb1mxpdwDvyrUaG3B0Ir-batDDpmM-daZ3j5

I really just stumbled over this and my first thoughts were of you . I don’t know what you believe or don’t believe however this is spoken from the heart and spoken from an experience and maybe there is just something in it that might help you .

I hope the link works.

 

[Shutesy]

@joe soapy theres nothing wrong with your posts but do you want them moved to a new, more suitable thread, they arent really on the topic that this thread is about.

 

[Blod]

Going back to someone's point about exercise. Parkrun happens all over the globe and in a park not far from most of us at 9am on a Saturday morning. If you walk it briskly you’ll not be the slowest because the point is to take part and just do it. It’s a run not a race. .
If you’d like to run it but don’t know how to get started then google ‘couch to 5km ‘ and have a go. You’ll meet friendly strangers of all shapes and sizes who are generally friendly and out of breath but best of all nonjudgmental in my experience. A really good atmosphere.
http://www.parkrun.org.uk