Yes after having 3 I always say to expectant father’s now that in the first few weeks you can’t do much anyway and quite frankly your in the way most of the time. So get your head down get some sleep she will need you more when the flowers people have sent have died all the visitors have stopped coming round to see the baby and forgotten all about it and she’s left on her own with it and the baby’s drinking more and sapping her energy that’s when she’ll be exhausted and will need the help.Trouble is Women in respect of looking after children /babies wont let up and danger is they run themselves into the ground by putting them first over themselves.
and btw where's the op one post and fudge off type is it?
and wtf's it actually got to do with owing your own farm? what difference does that make as opposed to being a tenant ?