- Location
- Cornwall
Stroke is a terrible thing, it can make someone a prisoner in their own body as I saw with my grandad.Thanks,
dad is still with us but had a stroke a few years ago. He went from the most hard working man I’ve known to being wheelchair bound, unable to look after himself and left with no speech. And all over night. It’s been a hard long journey and mum is now his full time carer. It’s the speech thing that is the toughest part. He is still there inside as he will laugh at old memories and will point out things that he notices around the farm if something is out of place but is trapped with no voice.
grandad is 89 and in hospital with flu. Very weak and doesn’t seem to want to eat anything despite me visiting each day and trying to encourage him that he needs some nutrition to build himself up again.
life just seems to have passed by I am early 30’s now but it seems like yesterday these two men in my life were these big giants whom I looked up to
It's tough to see someone who has always been a symbol of strength reduced in the way your dad and grandad have been, but it must also be difficult for them going from the "supporter" to the "supported".
Do you have any siblings/significant other to help you?