I find going out mid afternoon, having something to eat a few beers and be back home for 6pm can be far more relaxing than going out at 8pm especially if I have jobs to do the next day.That's another situation I rarely do. I'm ok with having cup of tea and a biscuit or 4 but haven't had a meal out of own house since last Christmas Day
What you are describing are fear and control issues, no one on this forum can cure you of this. You need to seek professional help for this condition, start with your doctor, they will refer you to the appropriate professionals with years of experience in this area. The first fear you need to overcome is accepting this and getting in contact with your doctor.Yes quite a few times
I find going out mid afternoon, having something to eat a few beers and be back home for 6pm can be far more relaxing than going out at 8pm especially if I have jobs to do the next day.
If you feel bad for not been at home when you go out mentally list 10 good jobs you have completed at home in previous few weeks. Then say to yourself them jobs are done now it's time to relax for a few hours, tommorrow i am going to do ???? But for the moment iam going to have a good chat to my mates and find out what they have been upto and before I go Iam going to arrange another meet up and by that time I will have achieved a number of other jobs at home.My couple friends either work during day so usually have to visit at night. And if I go to them on a day off I feel bad for not being home
If you feel bad for not been at home when you go out mentally list 10 good jobs you have completed at home in previous few weeks. Then say to yourself them jobs are done now it's time to relax for a few hours, tommorrow i am going to do ???? But for the moment iam going to have a good chat to my mates and find out what they have been upto and before I go Iam going to arrange another meet up and by that time I will have achieved a number of other jobs at home.
If you feel up to it go for it!Have ventured into that thread a few times but haven't spoke really
That's a very good point will you've got plenty of people on here that have taken a liking to you it would be good to see you join in the banter on other threadsThanks
I'm not in the least trying to put him down but iv offered jobs and help a lot to try and help him. I'm quite a fun person to be around and I be in his area at least twice a week so he could come with me for a run anytime.I think if you read his posts it sounds as if he's suffering from some fear/depression issues, best not to be too gung ho with your reply's.
I don't doubt it's well meant, I'm just encouraging caution.I'm not in the least trying to put him down but iv offered jobs and help a lot to try and help him. I'm quite a fun person to be around and I be in his area at least twice a week so he could come with me for a run anytime.