Struggling abit

[will6910]

Have some relatives and plenty of friends from on here. But when the shop up the road is a far for me England seems huge distance for me

 

[Lofty1984]

This will sound harsh Will but we can't help Someone who doesn't want to be helped.
You say you haven't been to the doctors for fear of the waiting room, if you actually spoke to your doctor yourself and explained how you feel then perhaps they'd do a home visit, having said that we all have to do stuff we don't like from time to time and stuff that scares us it's all part of life and maturing as a person.
Ultimately the only one that can change your life is you illness or not you need to be strong and take control of your life pal

 

[brynseiri]

Young farmers groups all around but never was well enough to sit in room and chat in afraid. Haven't been out of house at night for weeks and weeks. Find I can't make myself go out visiting as I be to concerned about certain jobs the next day. Silly I know

It isn't silly Will, it's illness, and people in these places are there to befriend and welcome you, now is the time to go join. Trust me on this, you see me on Facebook, my wife and my child, all of that is because of young farmers, met my mates there, met my girlfriend who is now my wife. It's the stuff of life Will, and Young farmers movement do help young people from all walks of life in your situation. Get your mum to get hold of them and explain the situation, trust me on this please Will, they'll not cure you straight away, but they'll make up a good part of your recovery.

 

[will6910]

Thanks

 

[brynseiri]

It's just start of the autumn season for YFC, so there's new members night usually, even so, they're always glad of new members.

 

[holywell farmer]

Thanks

Will I have had all kinds Shyte thrown at me in my life I admire the way you conduct your self, but somtimes you do need to put yourself before others in life and that includes work

 

[H.M.]

Sorry to hear you're struggling again Will.
As already said, speak to the doctor over the phone and explain how you're feeling, if they understand the situation they might do a home visit. You could always get your mum to ring first and explain, then pass the phone to you once the doctor's there, then you only have to speak to the doctor and not the receptionist

Hope things improve for you soon

 

[TheTallGuy]

If you've not had a proper face to face consultation with a doctor in a while then this has to be your highest priority - things aren't likely to get better without dealing with the illness properly - that means proper regular consultation with a specialist who can adjust your medication correctly and offer other avenues of appropriate treatments as necessary.

 

[will6910]

Thanks everyone

 

[will6910]

I do take all comments and suggestions on board and try my best to do them. Find it easier usually to say things by msg

 

[Bones]

Hello will, hope all is well ,not easy getting the time ,but some times good weight bearing exercises in the gym or meby a we home gym in one of your sheds ,get on the net and order a bench and some heavy weights ,it will help clear your head and you will be buzzing afterwards. Don't laugh this off, give it a go seriously,, good luck will ,keep her lit

 

[will6910]

I have small weight somewhere that I used years ago for that job. Must look them out

 

[Bones]

I have small weight somewhere that I used years ago for that job. Must look them out

Get a decent set of steel weights and a good adjustable weights bench,money well spent

 

[milkloss]

Why don't you email your doctor explaining how you feel. You explain your feelings well on here and maybe the doc will have a head start and make the time for a visit, even if it's in the shed looking at the sheep where you are comfortable.

It's great to see the TFF massive listening and trying to help as usual, just don't go mentioning brexit, subsidies and silage wagons or they'll turn on you!

Hope you can get some real assistance to the better soon

 

[will6910]

Why don't you email your doctor explaining how you feel. You explain your feelings well on here and maybe the doc will have a head start and make the time for a visit, even if it's in the shed looking at the sheep where you are comfortable.

It's great to see the TFF massive listening and trying to help as usual, just don't go mentioning brexit, subsidies and silage wagons or they'll turn on you!

Hope you can get some real assistance to the better soon

Thanks. Il look into doctor email for phone call on Monday

 

[DRC]

Will. If you can't face going to your doctors , then at least write them a letter or email, explaining exactly how you feel. Just like you do in your posts on here.
It may also be worth contacting one of the farming charities and talking things through with a counsellor . They should be better able to advise you than we are .

 

[DRC]

Will. If you can't face going to your doctors , then at least write them a letter or email, explaining exactly how you feel. Just like you do in your posts on here.
It may also be worth contacting one of the farming charities and talking things through with a counsellor . They should be better able to advise you than we are .

Just seen milkloss has said the same thing!

 

[will6910]

Decided to walk up to sheep instead of drive today. Sun came out just in time or I'd still be there looking for them in fog

 

[holywell farmer]

Decided to walk up to sheep instead of drive today. Sun came out just in time or I'd still be there looking for them in fogView attachment 429958

You still on that dairy farm

 

[will6910]

No haven't been for few months now. Plenty at home to keep me busy if I got in right frame of mind