- Location
- Penzance
Brief introduction: I'm not a proper farmer. We moved to a smallholding, I'm still doing my regular job. We have some sheep and a few cows. Been here a few years now.
I don't know how to cope with the rain anymore. I'm sick of grey overcast skies from horizon to horizon for days on end. I don't want to see the rain blowing horizontally. I don't want to hear it thundering on the roofs and windows.
When it's sunny, I'm a different person. I love it, I'm happy, problems seem solvable, the future's bright. I'll spend happy time watching the sheep (turned out at last this weekend) or the cows (still in because we don't have enough grass for them yet).
But being in Wales, that doesn't last, so it rains again, and I grit my teeth and wait, but it doesn't seem to stop, and I want to scream for every minute that it's _still bloody raining_ and will probably go on forever. I've started doing the bare minimum in my outside jobs when it's raining because I can't stand it anymore.
It seems entirely possible, given last year's "Summer" that this weather needn't let up, and it'll just be unremittingly grey and sodden all through the year. I don't know how anyone manages to farm around here and I'm at my wits' end.
Hi.
Welcome to TFF, first off ik just how bad Welsh weather can be at times, but depend upon it the weather will let up very soon I would recommend getting a special lamp to look into for the sunlight effect. My nan and in fact most of my family suffer from SAD, the light mimics the sun and can truely help liven the senses. Vitamin supplements can also help it may be worthwhile speaking to your GP about it. Chin up lad, we are all here for you anytime. I myself have been helped by lots of people on here, through very tough times in my life, thing to remember is to take every day as it comes. I think of it like this... Every job whether minimal or great is still a big step forward. Think of it as how something gains weight, ok... Not best example but every little thing we do adds up and soon we will see those little things that we thought highly insignificant have formed into something very positive you work at something long enough and it will bring rewards. Each year is different some summers are bad, but some are very good it's all a bit of a hit and miss wherever we live, but that's climate change tbh. Sorry am rambling on a bit here. Just want to say you're not alone, keep talking we'll listen and offer advice/support where we can. You're welcome to message me if you like. I can't pretend to offer the best advice but I'm a good listener. In the meanwhile here's some lovely pics for you
Meet Penelope and Kevin
Meet Debbie, the mum, Devlin and Rodney
Don't be fooled by all the greenery, it's only just poking it's way up now, not much there...
The weather will get better DW and the grass may take a little longer to come through but it will, you'll see x