Christoph1945
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How old is he? Married, single?
Sounds like you are both 'perhaps' going through difficult times.
Sounds like you are both 'perhaps' going through difficult times.
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26 I’m 21 tomorrow! He’s having relationship troubles as well as feeling like he’s not achieving much with his life, our parents have been getting divorced this last 2 years and it’s been tough,I know it has but that’s farming it puts serious pressure on you,How old is he? Married, single?
Sounds like you are both 'perhaps' going through difficult times.
Might be a good idea to get your brother away from the farm for a few days if possible, not a good place to be if he's in a bad place in his head, do you have any friends/neighbours that perhaps could step in and help out whilst you concentrate on your brother?Not overly I made some jobs up to do with him, he’s a fairly big thinker as in over thinks, im not like that I’m the man up it will be right enough kind, I’ve told him we will get him help tomorrow, it’s been a tough 2 years for us but things are on the up this last few months, he just doesn’t seem happy with life in general,
Yeah he should get away he’s caught up on field work, we have a few staff so it’s not an issue for him to get away, will see what he says tomorrow I want him to do what he wants to do not what he feels he has to in lifeMight be a good idea to get your brother away from the farm for a few days if possible, not a good place to be if he's in a bad place in his head, do you have any friends/neighbours that perhaps could step in and help out whilst you concentrate on your brother?
It's hard to see someone close going through bad times, the farm community network will have a local volunteer that will come and have a chat to you and your brother if you want, they are very good at what they do, there are plenty on here that will listen and help all we can,Yeah he should get away he’s caught up on field work, we have a few staff so it’s not an issue for him to get away, will see what he says tomorrow I want him to do what he wants to do not what he feels he has to in life
Sorry to hear that.caught my brother attempting to take his life today, was just about to step over the edge when I came into the yard by luck, not sure how I feel to be honest not sure what happened has sunk in
@waterbuffalofarmer hope things are settling down with you, too soon to expect too much improvement I would expect, but I hope things with you father and all is looking in the right direction
@Thomas-milmain, I hope things are better with you today, but as others have said above even if things are "brighter" today your brother should see someone, yesterday was a cry for help and hopefully he realises that. Also make sure you look after yourself, I can imagine with everything going on your under alot of pressure yourself
What are they going to do to Dad, under the scalpel? He is probably bound to be somewhat nervous; it goes with the nature of the event. We will all be thinking of you and hope dad has a safe journey to and from London.
Chris
Thank you Chris
They will be giving him an ablation procedure, he will be knocked out for it thankfully tho.
https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/cardiac-ablation/about/pac-20384993
This is what will be happening...
I really hope everyone else's weeks get better. TC yaselves please and remember plenty of support is here from everyone on here to anyone who is struggling.
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That's old newsAre you slaying vampires as an extra job now?
That's old news
Well always a first for everythingWell I’m old.
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Hope your dads op goes well
Really struggling with life at the minute. Get really wound up quick as a flash(as in, I want to repeatedly hit things that aren't working my way...) , feeling useless every day. Feel bad at telling children off more than not. Fed up at being fed up. Is that part of the depression or am I just over worked and underslept??? Anyone else feel the same way?