- Location
- Lincolnshire
The thing I struggle with most since my father went is decision making as well as the physical help to get jobs done.
I tend to overthink every decision now. It’s worse arguing with yourself than it was with him. Gradually getting there though. I remember he said it was the same when his father passed away. He suddenly couldn’t grade lambs for market even though he had been doing it for years. Grandfather hadn’t really interfered in the job but just gave that bit of reassurance or confidence. When you have nobody for a second opinion or to keep you grounded it’s easy to start floating off into your own warped sense off reality so to speak. That’s why society or community is important, I think. Keeps us grounded, just as every electronic system needs a good Earth reference point or mayhem ensues.
I tend to overthink every decision now. It’s worse arguing with yourself than it was with him. Gradually getting there though. I remember he said it was the same when his father passed away. He suddenly couldn’t grade lambs for market even though he had been doing it for years. Grandfather hadn’t really interfered in the job but just gave that bit of reassurance or confidence. When you have nobody for a second opinion or to keep you grounded it’s easy to start floating off into your own warped sense off reality so to speak. That’s why society or community is important, I think. Keeps us grounded, just as every electronic system needs a good Earth reference point or mayhem ensues.