easier said than done if your in buisness with them and they have the controlling stake.How many times has the phrase ' one day all this will be yours' been said ,only for it not to be . How high does the average farmers age have to get before serious coversations within the industry are had about succession planning and legal rights for those that were 'promised'.Haveing read lots about failed succesion ,perhaps there needs to be a discussion on wether npd is a major factor in most cases with the inability of the one in charge to let go ..In a marraige this behaviour would be classed as coertion and grounds for devorce. if only there was an easier way of getting out of narcassistic relationships in farming relationships without the victim becomeing even more victimised by being forced away