non of that will probably have any success or effect.........please do yourself a favour and sit down at your computer and google /research PATHALOGICAL NARCASSISUM and then go more specific such as ( the effects a pathalogical narcassist has on their family /work coleeges) or what ever your relationship is with this person .. hopefully if this is the correct diognosis of this individual then it will give you some tools of understanding and dealing with these disfunctional people im dealing with a complete controlling entity that we would refer to as control freak/dictator /phyco /geriatric toddler etc ......stumbling accross the personality disorder called PATHALOGICAL NARCASSIST (BEAR IN MIND THAT A PERSONALITY DISORDER IS A DISORDER OF THAT PERSONS PERSONALITY AND PROBABLY CANNOT BE FIXED ) but your interactions /dealings/resolutions with this person can be adjusted to mitigate the detrimental effects....sorry to be blunt but you probably wont be able to fix them....please let me know if you do ,do a bit of research and if it shed light on why he probably behaves the way he does