- Location
- Ardrossan Ayrshire
No, I understand. One lad came to work for me, great worker, great timekeeper, but a sad angry man. Used as a punchbag at the age of ten by his drunk father to show off to his friends, locked in the house for 48hrs regularly while his parents went out on the pee, unable to run away because his dad would start on his younger brother...... Ended up in jail, picked up a heroin habit, sent back to jail for burglaryto feed his habit.....It's alright - I once tried to explain Salford to one of my Ag students (they had suspected that I wasn't from a farming background). When I said that It could be a tad....rough - she replied that it probably wasn't as rough as Warminster........
Anyway he went to rehab and got clean, ended up working for me for 8 years, but I could never really help him, the damage was too deep. His brother has multiple problems too, all caused by the people who were supposed to be caring for them.
Incidentally I live in one of the most deprived areas of Scotland, so I had a good idea of what a bad childhood and useless parenting looked like.